A long time ago, home was a place of calm. It was a harbor from stress, a fountain of rejuvenation, a place of play after a day of work. When sheltering began three months ago, my home became a mish mash of multiple life domains. It is now a space shared with clients; an office where I write notes and treatment plans; a venue for Zoom staff meetings and intern supervisions. COVID-19 has destroyed the notion of work/life balance, and judging from the multitude of tales I’ve been told, we all seem to be experiencing the same blurring of boundaries. At first, there was novelty in resting on my couch…
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“Thriving” During COVID-19 Is Our Responsibility
Days after COVID-19 changed our way of living, I became aware of the extent to which I had made a smooth transition to working from home. Although I missed the intimacy of sharing our sacred space with my clients, and the banter of collegial relationships, I did not miss traffic, arriving home after 9pm, or alternate side of the street parking. Two weeks later, I was reading and writing more, walking 30 minutes a day, and developing a business website. Three weeks in I noticed my income remained steady, clients had welcomed virtual visits, and I lost seven pounds. My stress decreased, and productivity increased in the face of a…
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Allowing Elderly Loved Ones to Express Anxiety During COVID-19
We are living in a historical time during which every news story updates us on the prevalence and mortality rate of the Corona Virus (COVID-19), emotional response ranging from apathy among young spring breakers who believe themselves invincible, to older people whose anxiety has morphed into Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. Then there is the population most at risk of fatality; our oldest loved ones, many of whom have preexisting conditions known to increase COVID-19 lethality. Many seniors are sequestered from family, and afraid while others live with family, and are still afraid. They are experiencing intensified fear of death, being a burden to loved ones, and all the unknowns about the…
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Five Keys to Calm During COVID-19
As if anxiety in our country isn’t high enough, a virus that spreads like brush fire is threatening our health, social connections, and possibly our livelihoods. Times like these are sure to amp up our tendency toward “what if?” thinking, and as we all know, the anxious mind never allows for a “what if?” with a happy ending. While I would never advocate for apathy in a time of global pandemic, absolute panic is not the way to go either. Panic leads to rash decisions, and for parents, the certainty of making our children feel as if the world is not safe. Here are some thoughts on how to keep…
