Few celebrity deaths shocked us more than the recent tragic death of Lakers legend, Kobe Bryant. From the moment my brother texted me he had died, I was glued to news outlets, and my Twitter feed, waiting for every excruciating detail to be revealed; all of this while wishing it was just a horrible dream. It wasn’t, of course, and the nightmare grew more horrendous when it was revealed his daughter, Gianna, was on that helicopter with him. As tributes to Bryant posted to social media accounts, grief about what would have been Gianna’s celebrated Women’s National Basketball Association (WNBA) career flooded feeds as well. As news outlets continued their…
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Preserving Dignity in a Dying Loved One
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How Infidelity Transforms Death Anxiety Into Death Denial
Many of us are in a life stage characterized more by “lasts” than “firsts.” We are working at our last jobs before retirement, occupy the last homes in which we will ever live, and might be in the last romantic relationships of our lives. It’s not so much that there are no remaining “firsts”, but there is little thrill in first social security check, or first colonoscopy. When we sense Winter is coming, and Spring has passed, awareness of mortality triggers anxiety we didn’t experience in our youth. As we age, awareness of death increases in many ways, most powerful being the death of our parents who we once perceived as immortal. Aging also…
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Grudge Is a Path Toward Anxiety and Regret
Grudges May Seem Like a Good Idea In the Moment, but Regret Looms.
